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Second Coming -> I need some female perspective (4/23/2008 11:06:13 AM)

A long story short; this is a girl that works with my wife. There was a grand opening party and I met a few of the girls she works with and they all like me and are my friends on myspace now. "C" left a comment on one of my pictures. And I responded back then she responded back. And I don't know how to take this really. Anyway here's how it went:

C: (i don't remember exactly how she put it but she called me a slut in one of my pictures and said "hahahhaha" at the end of it)

Me: "I notice you use the word "slut" a lot in your comments. I think someone is projecting.
hahaha"

C: "yeah that's really funny. you know you think if you move to a new city you can start over, but no. there's always people like you who won't let that happen. thanks a lot."


3 things we know about "C"

1. she told me "I like you"
2. she told me "you're a good man"
3. she told my wife the next day after their party "I heart your husband"

Anyway, I have several possiblities of what she meant. I just want to hear some thoughts first. From anyone really. But I still don't understand the female mind so I was looking for a female's perspective.



Bishop -> RE: I need some female perspective (4/23/2008 1:58:14 PM)

Can you manage two? [sm=winkin.gif]



Second Coming -> RE: I need some female perspective (4/23/2008 9:13:43 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bishop

Can you manage two? [sm=winkin.gif]


so that's how you take it huh?



Kodachi -> RE: I need some female perspective (4/23/2008 9:18:46 PM)

Hrm, I'm a female. I also think she's an idiot to be frank. Seriously, she just likes playing games from what it sounds like. Prolly got emotional issues up the wazoo regarding her response to you saying she's projecting. If you're going to go to a new city to start anew, you should be focused on that regardless what people say or think and it isn't like you, Second Coming, knew that beforehand she was the lady of 42nd St....that is, if she isn't lying.

This girl just plain ain't up to any good. She's just playing around with the lives of others. Cut off psycho-rella at the knees the same way you would if she was a guy. That's prolly the only way she'll get the idea that you aren't the one to play with.



SaronRosse -> RE: I need some female perspective (4/23/2008 9:25:12 PM)

hmmm you should let her know it is not funny for you... if she doesn't knwo how you feel... she will continue...
let me know how it goes



Second Coming -> RE: I need some female perspective (4/23/2008 10:15:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kodachi

Hrm, I'm a female. I also think she's an idiot to be frank. Seriously, she just likes playing games from what it sounds like. Prolly got emotional issues up the wazoo regarding her response to you saying she's projecting. If you're going to go to a new city to start anew, you should be focused on that regardless what people say or think and it isn't like you, Second Coming, knew that beforehand she was the lady of 42nd St....that is, if she isn't lying.

This girl just plain ain't up to any good. She's just playing around with the lives of others. Cut off psycho-rella at the knees the same way you would if she was a guy. That's prolly the only way she'll get the idea that you aren't the one to play with.


I was thinking one of these things:

1. she's pissed off
2. she's joking but couldn't come up with a good comeback
3. she was saying "you're making it hard not to fall back into my old ways"

thanks for your reply. I've had someone else say she's a psycho. I thought some of the same things you thought. I thought "she likes to play games" and thought "how would I know she actually had issues" I'm starting to think I hit the nail on the head with that comment and maybe it struck a nerve. Thanks again for your reply. I think I know how I'll approach it now. Cut off psyhco-rella at the knees but in a subtle nicer way.



Kodachi -> RE: I need some female perspective (4/23/2008 10:35:10 PM)

Subtle and nice is good for starters for knee cutting. Save the throat cutting if she doesn't get it. Trust your instincts, man!



Bishop -> RE: I need some female perspective (4/24/2008 10:09:02 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Second Coming

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bishop

Can you manage two? [sm=winkin.gif]


so that's how you take it huh?


Yep. Or three if i'm lucky. Just ask MikeG.



Second Coming -> RE: I need some female perspective (4/28/2008 2:19:18 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bishop

quote:

ORIGINAL: Second Coming

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bishop

Can you manage two? [sm=winkin.gif]


so that's how you take it huh?


Yep. Or three if i'm lucky. Just ask MikeG.


Mike's one of the three? [:o]



Second Coming -> RE: I need some female perspective (4/28/2008 2:52:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SaronRosse

let me know how it goes



I didn't understand the tone of her message so I just replied with an ambiguous message of my own: "'People like me' huh?"(instead of the awesome comment I was going to reply with). I didn't think anything else of it. Then last night my wife said "um...haha Courtney said 'your husband is harassing me on myspace(said in a joking way). I think he's secretly hilarious.' and Shannon said 'oh yeah he's really funny!'" Then there was a lot of explanation of what they were talking about etc... But in short she wasn't pissed, but I'm still not sure what her comment meant exactly. Or the term "secretly hilarious". I guess she didn't know there was a humorous side to me? Whatever.



Harlequin -> RE: I need some female perspective (5/1/2008 7:13:30 PM)

I bet she has a CRUSH on you. [:D]



Supafly -> RE: I need some female perspective (5/1/2008 7:23:56 PM)

let's break this down

secretly = hidden
hilarious = funny

hidden funny.....

further

hidden = closet
funny = gay

I'm not sure where this is going.....I'd ask for clarification [sm=smiley_watchout.gif]



Second Coming -> RE: I need some female perspective (5/2/2008 3:48:16 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Harlequin

I bet she has a CRUSH on you. [:D]


I'm starting to think you're right....

And she's had me wondering and thinking about it and her. Good job on her part I guess. :/



Second Coming -> RE: I need some female perspective (5/2/2008 3:51:43 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Supafly

let's break this down

secretly = hidden
hilarious = funny

hidden funny.....

further

hidden = closet
funny = gay

I'm not sure where this is going.....I'd ask for clarification [sm=smiley_watchout.gif]


gay = Richard Simmons

I remind her of Richard Simmons?



Harlequin -> RE: I need some female perspective (5/2/2008 9:48:42 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Second Coming

quote:

ORIGINAL: Harlequin

I bet she has a CRUSH on you. [:D]


I'm starting to think you're right....

And she's had me wondering and thinking about it and her. Good job on her part I guess. :/


Don't worry. All you have to do is smoosh her little hopes and dreams by talking about how much
you love your wife, and how your wife is prettier, sexier, amazinger (etc.) than any other woman
on the planet, and that no one else can compare to her. Trust me, "C" will go from crushing
to crushed. [8|]



Bishop -> RE: I need some female perspective (5/7/2008 12:42:55 PM)

Way to go, Romeo.



Second Coming -> RE: I need some female perspective (6/6/2008 9:24:43 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bishop

Way to go, Romeo.


I had the perfect reply if I wanted to be funny/somewhat flirty. But didnt' want to go down that road.




Second Coming -> RE: I need some female perspective (6/6/2008 12:40:58 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kodachi

Hrm, I'm a female. I also think she's an idiot to be frank. Seriously, she just likes playing games from what it sounds like. Prolly got emotional issues up the wazoo regarding her response to you saying she's projecting. If you're going to go to a new city to start anew, you should be focused on that regardless what people say or think and it isn't like you, Second Coming, knew that beforehand she was the lady of 42nd St....that is, if she isn't lying.

This girl just plain ain't up to any good. She's just playing around with the lives of others. Cut off psycho-rella at the knees the same way you would if she was a guy. That's prolly the only way she'll get the idea that you aren't the one to play with.


Wow, you know you hit the nail on the head. I found out she's been seeing a psychologist. hahaha. But things are cool with us. I came in there a couple of days ago and we were talking and laughing. So it's all good.




Kodachi -> RE: I need some female perspective (6/7/2008 11:56:08 PM)

Ok then. Nice to know I give good advice once in a while.



B.B.freak -> RE: I need some female perspective (6/8/2008 6:44:14 PM)

I've known too many girls to act out in that kinda way, or say things off-wall and outta context like that... and everyone of them i've regretted knowing them honestly.

It's cool that things are going good with ya'll but i'd keep an eye on her.



Second Coming -> RE: I need some female perspective (6/9/2008 8:56:16 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: B.B.freak

I've known too many girls to act out in that kinda way, or say things off-wall and outta context like that... and everyone of them i've regretted knowing them honestly.

It's cool that things are going good with ya'll but i'd keep an eye on her.


I think you're right. I saw her saturday, the girl just likes to play games. I'll just keep my distance.



Supafly -> RE: I need some female perspective (6/9/2008 8:14:55 PM)

you got a number?  a buddy of mine is interested....



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